BDSM Will Always Be About Sex for Me

I once saw a rope bottom get suspended without getting hard. I stored it in my brain next to The Brief History of Time, the theory of relativity, and other things I will never understand no matter how hard I try. Don’t get me wrong. I don’t judge your flaccid state. I just cannot identify with it.

I will never need lube after a whipping, and BDSM will always be a carnal delight for me. My body wants what it wants. I can’t think its sensuality away any more than I can think away the sunset. I am a sexual masochist and an even more sexual sub. I am always in oestrus around kink, and I like it that way.

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You can try to keep your degradation platonic all damned night, but I’ll be drenched before you get within a metre of me. My sexuality is built out of every letter in the BDSM acronym, but I can’t voluntarily turn it on, so of course, I can’t turn it off either.

I will want to fuck you before, during, and after the B and the D and the S… and also the M. If you want to torture me properly, don’t bother flogging me harder. Just take sex off the table. At this juncture, I should prolly tell you that enforced chastity makes me horny too. Sorry.

If you stop when I hit subspace, I will die an agonising death caused by sexual frustration, but I guess I shouldn’t be sharing that fact with a bunch of sadists.

I don’t kink because I have some fancy-assed lifestyle and philosophical approach to D/s. I kink because it gets me off, and I’m not sorry for that.

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7 thoughts on “BDSM Will Always Be About Sex for Me

  1. thecuriousmermaid

    This rings pretty true for me! It’s interesting how some kink spaces have become de-sexualised. I personally feel the same as you and get very frustrated in a kink space which doesn’t allow for sex.

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  2. We all have our sexual desires and learning what they are is half the fun! Enjoyed your post. Personally, for me, enforced chastity, the idea, can get me horny. Enforced chastity in practice makes me angry. Lol different strokes for different folks

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